The reasons for the couple stopped the practice of intimacy
Considered cohabitation intimacy of a marriage, the main pillars ; But not every one realize what he wishes . There are reasons lead to the suspension of the couple making love , they differ between men and women . Sometimes, many do not have the other partner responsible for it , but the problem is private and individual . There may be reasons for a joint between the two partners .
Brazilian study competent marital and family affairs , said that sexual desire in men and women may be less, and that there are reasons behind it , what are they?
First - pessimism and sadness ongoing
Can be a pessimistic person by nature ; But is does not affect the marital relationship . This depends on the nature of each person , there are those who can differentiate between things and there are those who confuse everything. But there are others who are getting pessimistic or grief after the marriage for reasons of personal and family problems and the problems of work and so forth .
Grief and pessimism manifested in several Kaltab psychological symptoms of depression and fatigue permanently . These symptoms may worsen and negatively affect sexual performance or even stop the practice of cohabitation intimate .
Secondly - the brawls continued
When frequent fights between the couple , the libido up to lower its borders , especially if accompanied by insults fights . Sometimes the husband or wife uses sex as a punishment for another . , And this is common among some couples , it can also lead to decreased libido and may reach intimate cohabitation to an end.
Thirdly - taking certain medications
The study showed that there are many medications negatively affect sexual performance and the continuation of ingested may spend on sexual desire , especially the guy who may not be able to reach his genitals to the extent required for the cohabiting intimate . It is more medicines which have an effect on sexual performance are sedatives and hypnotics .
Fourth - the loss of gravity between spouses
Brazilian study said that after years of marriage , there is a case of lose attraction to the other body does not feel sexual desire , and in this case it is necessary to the existence of openness between the couple before they lead to loss of libido completely.
Fifth - the desire of some men in masturbation
The study confirmed that there are some men , who want to masturbate Ktherb practice of intimate cohabitation . This is one of the common conditions so that the euphoria felt by some men in masturbation be greater than the exercise of trance intimate cohabitation because the man unleash his imagination when he practiced sexual masturbation . With the continuation of that may not be able to access the state of excitement required for the exercise of intimate intercourse with the wife .
VI - the shame of sex
The study pointed out that there are men from the fear of failure in the case of access to sexual arousal or does not like the shape of women's intimate members , because of shame , therefore, his mind does not help him to reach the desired state for the exercise of intimacy. This situation has been exacerbated to some extent the fear of sex. The study confirmed that this case left untreated may destroy the sex life of the couple.
Seventh - hormonal problems
The study showed that the lack of certain hormones , may be a reason for the lack of sexual desire , lack of access to the state required for the cohabiting intimate , and comes on top of that the man 's lack of hormone Altististiron , which is vital to increase his sexual desire . And left it without treatment leads to the absence of cohabitation in the intimate marital relationship .
VIII - the boredom of the other
The study said that the presence of the couple together for many years to lead to boredom if the routine of their lives without any renewal . This boredom may turn into a major cause of low libido and hence the absence of sexual activity between them .
IX - feeling the pain of sexual
The study confirmed that this situation exists in abundance in women because of the defect may be an easy treatment; But that may be exacerbated and the cause of women escape from cohabitation intimate if not detected the cause of the pain she felt . The study added that the lack of sexual experience is one of the reasons for cohabitation false intimacy of the relationship , especially on the part of the man .
X. - women having a large number of boys
The woman having a large number of children , may affect her sexual desire . It has been proven scientifically that because of the changes , which occur in women after the birth of each case .
5 elements of a successful intimate relationship
Many couples fall into the mistake of allowing boredom to enter wedlock , and this is something which it described as the study of Brazilian competent social affairs and marital that leads to the transformation of intimacy to a mere duty to my marriage , and also leads to infidelity and divorce more often .
The study added that the couple's search for ways to break the cycle of intimacy routine , and for that identified five key elements to it , what are they?
First - not building many expectations about intimate cohabitation :
The construction of a lot of expectations about the intimate cohabitation makes it look heavy and tired ; they lose an element of spontaneity . It has been proven that spontaneous intimacy is more fun than sex , which adopted it to make it full of expectations overburdened.
Secondly - mutual respect :
The study showed that mutual respect in intimate relationship is one of the strong foundations for its success . On this side there are many men do not respect women's femininity , and treat her like a thing of the things that they can control them as they please . The study confirmed that women lose their sexual desire very easily when you feel that the partner does not respect her femininity .
Thirdly - mutual trust :
Intimate relationship based on mutual trust, eliminate all psychological barriers for women and men alike. The study said that women do not feel any sexual desire toward the man who does not trust it.
Fourth - Stay away from rough through the exercise of intimacy :
The study pointed out that there are men engaged in intercourse intimate violently , believing that it indicates their manhood . But studies and statistics confirm that 95 % of women do like sex is not associated with violence or roughness .
Fifthly - hot conversations before and during intercourse intimate :
The hot talk about sex , before and during intercourse intimate , also of the important elements for success. She added that women love to hear the words of praise of her beauty and intimacy during intercourse ; because it increases their self-confidence .
Secrets exciting for intimacy
Knowing the facts and mysteries of intimacy contribute to determining the fate of many cases of marriage. The more we know , sex has become more intimate relationship between the couple clearer and easier.
Institute of Gender Studies in the city of Sao Paulo, Brazil reported a number of interesting facts and secrets , and amazing sex couples for the purpose of educating , as the sex of the important science in human life , what are these secrets ?
First - Many researchers believe that human skin - man or woman - very important in intimacy. The brain is the most powerful tools in the process.
Second - there are 10-12 % of women in the world did they reach orgasm throughout their lives intimate .
Thirdly - exercise regularly gives the relationship benefits unmatched health , they make the body secretes substances able to fight many kinds of bacteria that cause a large number of diseases .
Fourthly - equivalent HE women dissatisfied sensitive region six times happier women, who are not satisfied or feel ashamed of their shape.
Fifthly - not all conditions are satisfactory sex for women , so it has to be dialogue, understanding and change.
VI - extrusion women during orgasm is not a myth , as able extrusion amount of liquid female private , vary between a woman and another .